How do i get over my bitterness towards women?

I'm 24 years old. All my life i really never had girlfriend i can call my own.. Been on a couple of dates but it never turned for the better for me. The women ended up always choosing the bad boy over me or just ignoring me in general. Well a year ago my uncle ped and left me over 1.7 million bucks from property he had around the US. I ended up selling 2 of the homes and kept one for me that i'm currently living in.. I got a TOTALLY make-over from the nice guy to a road warrior.. Upgrade my honda to a corvette and a suburban truck.. Wearing the hottest cloth that people are wearing today and exercising more and keeping fit.. I'm very confident about myself, i can tell girls like me now because i have things to offer.. Two girls that denied me in the past are coming around again asking to hang out.. So i said ok, but in the back of my mind i said I WILL NOT SPEND DIME ON THIS ***** and thats how i am with mostly all the women i meet! I wont spend **** on them due to the fact that i dont want to be used. Anyways after dinner the check came and i told her umm your half is $31.50 and she looked at me like i was from another planet. I said yes ***** your paying, aint no free rides here and she did. Was this the right move. I'm sorry i'm not sharing my new found wealth with no women..Sorry I just cant do it!