How can i tell if a guy just wants ?

So far, all he talks about is your looks. You already know the answer to this question. A forty year old guy who wants a twenty year old girl is only interested in . If your looking for a relationship, try dating a guy near your age. older men (30+) have experienced much more life than you and they, for the most past, have formed there opinions about most issues. meaning what you end up with is a father daughter syndrome where the guy will make most decisions and will want to do things his way. good luck